Sebastian Kydd
General Information

Around The Time Of 1966/7/8


High school student


Garret Kydd (father)
Lucas (stepfather)


Carrie Bradshaw (girlfriend)
Donna LaDonna (ex-girlfriend)
Maggie Landers (hook-up)
Art History Teacher (affair)
Vicky (hook-ups)

Series information
Portrayed by

Austin Butler

First episode


Sebastian Kydd is a central character in The Carrie Diaries, in which he is portrayed by Austin Butler. Serving as the primary love interest for Carrie Bradshaw, Sebastian comes from a wealthy family and has recently transferred to the local high school after being kicked out of his previous boarding school for sleeping with one of his teachers, in which Carrie's father represented him. But is now finding his love with Carrie. The series ends with him moving to California to start a skateboarding business.

History Edit


His personality: Sebastian is very caring and tries to always be there for Carrie and his friends. He is very nice and he also is a good listener. He admits that he does not have a 'killer instinct'. He has a lot charisma.

Physical AppearanceEdit

Standing at 6'0, Sebastian Kydd clearly makes an impression on anyone he encounters. His deep blue eyes, blonde hair, and his perfect bone structure, add to up to the ultimate heart throb. He is portrayed by Austin Butler.


Carrie BradshawEdit

This on and off relationship all started a year before their first day of high school when they spent the summer "hanging out" together. Which coincidentally ended up in their first kiss, but sadly Sebastian's parents were installing a pool in their backyard so they stopped seeing each other at the pool.

Episode 1 - Pilot - In the beginning of the episode Sebastian is introduced as the "cool kid" while Carrie isn't as cool as it seems. She instantly look at him and knew that she knew him. which later we knew that she was attracted to him. Sebastian walks over to Carrie and calls her "Bradshaw" which made people wonder how they know each ther.

later on in the episode, Sebastian and Carrie are talking when Carrie faints, and Sebastian's catches her. As her father is walks down the school hall "reminding her of the last time it happened." when her mother past away, and her father had to come to school and pick her up.

Later on in the episode Sebastian is found hanging out with Donna in his car. Which Carrie sees.

LaDonna, making Carrie stick him in the "friends" zone "for now."HE WILL ALWAYS CHOOSE HER (carrie)

Episode 2 - Lie With Me - This episode opens up with Sebastian and Carrie standing close, staring at each other, and they are about to kiss, but Donna LaDonna interupts by opening her locker in between them. Carrie is worried though, as not only is she grounded, but also she agreed to spend with Dorrit, therefore she doesn't really have time for Sebastian. Her friend Mouse has warned her of Donnas constant flirty talks with Sebastian. However Carrie has to turn him down when he invites her to a so called "boring" dinner at the country club. Carrie later finds out Donna LaDonna hangs out with him for the night, which makes her feel somewhat "replaced." Carrie makes plans to hang out with with her sister Dorrit at the pool but she later cancels on her due to prior arrangements on meeting Sebastian there sending Dorrit home upset. Carries father then shows up at the pool, interrupting them when they are kissing. Tom, her father takes Carrie home, but Sebastian approaches Tom, apologising and shaking his hand which he approves of. At the end of the episode, Tom tells Carrie she can't see Sebastian anymore, giving her no explanation, just saying to "stay away" making her unhappy, as she still has feelings for him, leaving them unresolved for the episode ending.

Episode 3 - Read Before Use - In the opening of this episode, Carrie refers to Sebastian as "the boy of my dreams" as they exchange a smiling glance. This puts a damper on things due to the fact she is not allowed to date him according to her father who will give no reason, for now. 

Over view of their love - Carrie and Sebastian are cleary made for eachother since the minute they layed eyes on eachother. of course their relationship had some up's and down's but thats when keeps the watchers happy. Carrie and Sebastian would do anything thing for eachother like when Sebastian didnt tell Carrie that her dad was seeing a women. what i simply love about this couple is how their chemistry works... we can see her carrie loves sebastian and how sebastian loves Carri



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Book ComparisonsEdit

  • In the novel, he drives a yellow Corvette. While in the show, he's seen with a red Porsche.
  • In the novel, he is shown to be a player. In the show, he's only dated two girls as of now, although he is a 'chess player'.
  • In the novel, he has a sister. In the show, he is an only child.
  • In the show, his parents have marriage and commitment issues. In the book, there isn't any mention of this.
  • In the novel, he secretly dates Lali, a friend of Carrie's. In the show, he doesn't cheat on her with any of her friends while they date (except his kiss with Maggie, and his affair with Vickie).
  • In the novel, he gets expelled from his previous school for selling drugs. In the show, he gets expelled for having sex with a teacher.
  • In the novel, he doesn't really care about Carrie. In the show Sebastian has said he loves Carrie and he was heartbroken when they split up.

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